Well said.
Narri N. (they/them)
I have a trauma-based personality disorder, which sometimes manifests itself in episodes of often uncontrollable bouts of verbal violence. I prefer to direct this to people on the internet (as opposed to actual people), as I don’t wish to be violent towards people I actually care about.
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Hey I get you. The great northern birdsnest I still call home has taught me since childhood that everything coming out of Russia has been, is and always will be bad. Just your standard rascism, “ryssä on ryssä vaikka voissa paistais” type of shit you know? “We weren’t actually nazis despite what we did with who in the war” and other collected denialisms on top of that. Unlearning the capitalist indoctrination is difficult, but I have learned to lend my critical support for the Russian state in the fight against western imperialist hegemony as my understanding of the world increases.
the european nations who previously plundered the global south with their literal empires being imperialists still? no, surely you must be sharing russian (because you mentioned ukraine) mis- and/or disinformation!
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Memes@lemmy.ml•*Looks at 'Department of War' news.* Atleast their current rulers are not so puzzled
6·4 months agoThankfully the United States Pharmaceuticals Inc. has got us all covered! Tired of the anxiety the constant Weltschmerz brings you? Well, feel no more! Introducing the all new Next SSRI®, still as debilitating as the one before!
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What’s contributing most to the death of the open internet?
22·4 months agocapitalism i guess
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why are people afraid of commitment in relationships?
6·4 months agoBecause it’s often real fucking scary? My every past (often futile and misguided) attempt at forming a (stricly monogamous cishet) relationship ended for one reason (me) or another (the other half). I have been hurt by myself and others, by my own feelings or the other’s or the lack thereof from either. Now I live together with an incredible woman who gets me and I get her and our futures have so far seemed well aligned and stuff and I never have to fear to be judged or ridiculed by her unlike in previous attemps and I know she trusts me (and I trust her when she says so) as well. And yet still I find myself fearing: what if she’ll just stop loving me because of xyz? Because everyone else has left so far (sure I might have personally driven away a few because of my fears and insecurities, and maladaptations or other toxicities, but I’ve grown from those times emotionally). It’s real scary to open your shell and be at your most vunerable, but it is also required. Not everyone can be expected at any point to be able to do it just like that.
That’s my two cents.
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Yes, i started playing the Autism funny game. 1 Week in, 16 hours only
8·5 months ago…ere the titans get hungry.
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Yes, i started playing the Autism funny game. 1 Week in, 16 hours only
6·5 months agoI only know of this game because has SsethTzeentach reviewed it in the past, but it seems quite funky indeed.
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Memes@lemmy.ml•Yes, i started playing the Autism funny game. 1 Week in, 16 hours only
31·5 months agoDwarf Fortress represent my personal brand of Autism best
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
World News@lemmy.ml•Indoctrination or Imagination? The West's Russia Scare Machine
3·6 months agonot even a near peer (sounds like peenar hehe) because the US is so massively behind everyone in every metric that matters, right?
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•do you use non violent communication at the workplace?
6·6 months agoi also haven’t heard that name before, but this seems to be along the same lines that we were taught in dialectical behavior therapy within interpersonal relationship skills. one great use for this skill for people with difficulities in emotional self-regulation (usual in trauma-based disorders i believe, i was stamped with bpd myself) is to learn to detach emotions from whatever it is that you need to talk about, as to minimize the possibility of an overwhelming emotional state. i personally used to go completely delusional very easily in enough emotional stress, so much so that reality that everyone else could see didn’t really matter to me because i saw a different reality that i knew completely and utterly to be true. this tendency has lead to many moments of distress to myself personally and many more around the world, and this skill is one of the reasons i don’t suffer as much anymore.
which is why it’s so sad to see such rampant ableism in the comments. people completely misunderstanding the entire concept (because of it’s sucky name) and then just completely shitting on apparently everyone, someone there decided to bring up their general bigotry towards sexual minorities there or something.
anyway, nothing to do with the question really, just some personal musings
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What have you heard people say that screams "I have lived my life in a Westernised bubble and have no idea how the world is" ?
41·6 months agoThese are the facts that are known to everyone born and living under Western Imperialism, because communism doesn’t work because communism can’t work because the Western Imperialists told us so! How can you be so naive and stupid to believe anything else? Do you not know?
That’s what you sound like, bootlicker.
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What have you heard people say that screams "I have lived my life in a Westernised bubble and have no idea how the world is" ?
31·6 months agoIt might have been a misunderstanding between how being unemployed doesn’t rule out being a wage slave, even if you live in a country with a relatively high standard of living because the means of production are still capitalistic, you just don’t have any income and the government tries its best to not give you any also. Or I used the term in a too abstract of a manner elsewise. Or a combination of all and some others.


That fuckface should get killed.