People say there’s certain vibes but I define that as an intersection of hobbies interests life stages culture religion politics family dynamics etc past experiences

The beautiful part to me are the parts that are most memorable, the rest are just a blur. Maybe like a house party you stayed up the whole night or where your group did an impromptu trip etc. or had a major detour where everyone was stressed beyond repair.

Rare but they stick out as memories. The rest feels like social obligations that build up to those moments. We’re talking like 90:10 rarity. Also it factors in everyone’s mental state. It’s similar to how a team wins a game, the practice builds up to a moment.

Make this a pop up all across the country I’ll donate

This guy at one point had a chance to become a decent conservative leader. The power and the coke got to him and he’s gonna fall off hard after it’s over.

they have an alternate algorithm. when news like this come up, they perceive it as negative and it impacts whatever engagement they have. Similar to how we start to tune out of stuff that make us upset.

They went all in on and are double downing on “fake news” because they identify with their leader all too well.

edit: the jubilee videos are a good example of how they’ll rush to debate a “lib”, but they all can’t agree with each other’s facts its insane.

rubberducking for those with social anxiety. Also small friction to get surface level answers that normally took digging from multiple sources.

it’s a study monster that initially wiped chegg, duolingo, sparknotes etc. The double edge is that people forgot how to take notes, learn fundamentals to handle complex problems.

Don’t give up but definitely don’t work it to perfection. Also comic book with multiple races is gonna stress your drawing ability to the max.

It’s low key and has a slightly higher barrier to entry. This weeds out a lot of people that can’t bother to try. People here seem level headed

Standardized connector for everything with backwards compatibility

Kinda but reddit is a mature voting system mixed with capitalism. There’s a gamification with getting upvotes with trophies achievements, minimums to join certain communities. Reddit is a publicly traded stock which influences a lot of behaviors.

Here in lemmy there aren’t rewards for high upvotes besides the sorting.

Knowing there’s a lower reason to get data mined.

When we aren’t competing for top comments then there’s no pressure to post witty stuff.

The more people draw from reddit is like playing an MMO with a bunch of bots with tons of empty servers. Here it feels like a private server that’s more relaxed.

To be fair there’s a lack of niche that sometimes I go to reddit for. but when it gets too loud (politics, controversy). It’s best to look somewhere quiet. It’s kinda like option calls, on reddit your comment can spike overnight and you’ll get that reddit karma dopamine. But the lows can be harsh when people start getting combative.

Tldr lemmy is more slower paced and less addicting.

Pretty cool so long those fans don’t go berserk. Faster troubleshooting if it’s tested well. I remember setting up fan curves on bios at one point and it was annoying enough. Also I don’t think you can stress test there so if your use case needs that then sure.

Not associating with as many bots.

I believe it was America’s most wanted. Usually it ends with the criminal getting caught, but when they end with case gone cold and they add a phone number. It feels unsettling and sits with you.

The first time I had Papa John’s with the garlic sauce. I guess I just like garlic.

Id let some neighbors know because safety in numbers. If he truly wants to show up, then it will be an unfair fight.

Be safe and be kind to those around you.

Before it went downhill the filet o fish always made me happy. The tartar sauce with a large piece of fish always felt cleansing.