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  • GenX here. I was alive and remember the older folks the millennials and later didn’t get to meet. Boomers were, and still are, much more liberal than their parents and grandparents were. It’s hard to imagine but it’s true. Example: god forbid you were a girl - you could be one of three acceptable things 1) a baby factory/cook/maid for your husband 2) a nurse 3) a nun. And 2 and 3 were sketchy - those were just for the ugly girls….I’m serious… They shouldn’t vote, they didn’t have credit cards, and they certainly didn’t need to “think” - just do what your father said until your husband took that job over. GenX girls literally could be whatever they wanted - we were the first generation where that was possible (even if it came with disapproving side eyes - it was still possible).

    The generational hate is misplaced IMO. It’s hard for my kids to understand what life was like after ww2 and the fifties. Boomers really did think and act quite liberally compared to the world they grew up in. We gen Xers saw a glimpse of that world and for all the boomer’s faults, we appreciated what our parents tried to make for us. I’m not saying they were perfect, there tends to be a lot of selfishness in that generation as well as pulling up the ladder behind them. GenX ain’t like that generally speaking. I don’t think you’ll see that type of behavior from us. If you want to criticize us, you’d have to point at our apathy and “fuck it” attitude. We’ve seen some shit yo, and we were tired of it all by high school. Some of it is the same rage boomers rebelled against, some of it directed at all the fucked-up-ness that was new (the economy, the environment, drugs alcoholism and physical abuse, the rich’s exploitation of the working class, having to care for both kids and our parents on a pauper’s salary, etc.). We ain’t perfect, and some older GenX might as well be boomers - but in the end I’m not sure any of it matters. There just ain’t enough of us compared to the rest of you. Boomers croak, and millennials, genz, and alpha have like 75%+ of the vote (someone should fact check me on that but I think I’m in the ballpark). And I would HOPE my generational cohorts would vote more in line with the younger folks - because otherwise they are posers who sold out (they should listen more closely to their Rage Against the Machine lyrics).

    Remember, it’s class warfare, not generational warfare.


  • Drain uncloggers are a caustic. Meaning they are a strong base that eats stuff away. They are generally safe to use except for two very specific circumstances.

    1. you really don’t want to use them if you’re on a septic system. It will kill the good bacteria that eats your poop. It’s not a deal breaker, your system will repopulate eventually. But it could lead to a backup. In my opinion - just don’t use that stuff with septic tanks ever.

    2. if your pipes are old af and on their last legs. Or some of your joints are shoddy. Draino might eat through that last little bit of metal and cause a leak. But to be fair, a snake could bust something open too. This isn’t a problem with modern plumbing. Nothing you can do about it except watch for leaks no matter what you do (or replace that old plumbing).

    I’ll offer some advice. For like $35 bucks you can buy a real honest to goodness plumbing snake that’s hand operated. Mine has a little orange saucer thingy the snake coils up into. You pull out some of the snake, and stick it in the drain. You push with one hand, and you use the other to twist the snake via the big hand crank knob thingy. You push a foot or so of the snake down the drain, then pull out a bit more of the snake from the saucer, and then push that bit down the drain (always hand crank spinning). It’s SUPER easy to do.

    The one I have is like 25 feet long, and I have cleared some of the nastiest clogs with that thing. I’m talking 5 foot long clogs of my wife’s hair/grease/soap grossness. Draino would never clear that - but the snake makes short work of it in less than 10 minutes. I spend a few bucks on some rubber gloves instead of hundreds on plumbers and expensive Draino.

    TLDR: get a hand snake. They work amazing, are super easy to use, and are less money than Draino (and plumbers)

    Edit/update: I’ve got one like this: https://www.homedepot.com/p/RIDGID-EZ-SPIN-Drain-Cleaning-Snake-Auger-80168/332294628




  • Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.comtomemes@lemmy.worldCan anyone confirm? Am British so idk
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    ‘Channels the inner Bostonian’

    • Expensive? Hell ya.
    • Freezing? Gimme a break, don’t be a pussy.
    • Difficult to navigate? T is always fuckin broke and late, driving blows. Don’t know where you’re going - just ask dipshit, we’ll set ya straight.
    • Unfriendly? Fuck you. We’re wicked nice.
    • Food? You must be fuckin blind son. Food here is pissa!
    • Did you mean the original Boston? I think your tea is done brewing in the harbor.

    ;)



  • If it’s a texture thing, have you tried all the tomato varieties? Like Roma tomatoes have very little seed and pulp, cherry tomatoes are kind of like grapes, and I’ve even tried some obscure varieties that make me question what a tomato is.

    If that doesn’t work, I’m honestly having a hard time thinking about a substitute for a tomato. They are pretty unique.






  • San Francisco has a pretty good bus/trolley system. There might be other cities with decent busses but I’m unaware of them.

    Some major cities like New York, Boston, Philly, Chicago have acceptable subways, and commuter rails. You can probably get a daily train from one city to the next. Example: you can take a train from Boston to NY once a day - it’s fairly ok, and probably preferable than driving for most people.

    Most cities have busses that suck, and literally zero trains and subways.

    Most Europeans don’t realize how big the US is, and how much of it is quite rural. It doesn’t make sense to build a rail to service the few dozen families in east bumfuck nowhere.

    Getting a license to drive is, generally speaking, pretty easy from most states. Usually just a written test and a road test where you just have to drive around the block without breaking any rules.

    Some city dwellers survive without cars, but they are kind of stuck in the city. When they want to get out, they’ll rent a car for the day.





  • Gen x with boomer parents who barely parented, so…. Everything?

    How’s this for a list? I swear every one of these is honest to god true and I did them all.

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    • Being kicked out of the house for the entire day with zero supervision
    • ice fishing / pond hockey. We decided if the ice was safe or not. Like 10 year old kids…
    • being allowed to ride our bikes on literally any road except for highways
    • riding bikes on the roads with no helmets
    • being allowed to go literally anywhere we could get to on our bikes
    • being given firecrackers
    • carrying and using real guns on the farm at about 10+ years old unsupervised (22s and 410s - the 12 gauge unsupervised wasn’t until I was older - like 16ish)
    • riding with no seat belts
    • riding in the back of a pickup truck
    • riding in the way back of a station wagon
    • riding on the edge of a tailgate with our legs dangling over (we used to drag our sneakers on the road and make white lines by burning off the rubber soles)
    • riding on the side edges of the bed of a pickup
    • holding ladders and whatnot onto the roof & tailgate of a pickup (like not tied down - the kids held it down)
    • working / playing all day in the summer sun with no suntan lotion
    • making jumps and going off them with bicycles
    • jumping over our friends with said bicycles and jumps
    • riding three wheelers (they stopped making them because they were so dangerous)
    • mean green machines
    • candy cigarettes
    • buying real cigarettes for our fathers from a vending machine
    • drinking from the hose
    • we we had “real” ninja stars and we hucked those things at everything
    • we had real knives at very young ages - like maybe 5?
    • I had a real slingshot early. Like 5ish. That thing could kill. Dangerous af.
    • I always had a bow and could use it as soon as I could draw it. My friend was lucky enough to have a compound bow. Totally cool to walk around with bows and shoot shit.
    • I learned to use a chainsaw around 10yr old
    • drove tractors unsupervised at about 8 yr old
    • drove tractors on the road
    • learned to drive a real car (Datsun pickup truck - stick shift) at about 10. Unsupervised on the farm. Not allowed on the road. We used to drive it fast and do donuts and shit. Parents and grandparents didn’t care - we were just having some fun. “Be careful and don’t crash into trees” was all I ever got warned about.
    • siphoned gas with a hose
    • sprayed herbicides pesticides and fungicides as a teenager with no mask
    • being allowed to camp outside in the woods for the night with friends
    • being allowed to make campfires at said campouts (we cooked hotdogs and ate them)
    • going to concerts with older brothers (anyone’s older brother) at young ages (basically once you started getting into music - 10ish?)
    • carrying a house key with you since day 1 of kindergarten
    • being a latchkey kid - I came home alone and took care of myself and my younger sister by about 3rd grade. Before that we got dropped off at grandmas house after school. If we had a problem we just called grandma on the phone.
    • allowed to cook anything anytime since about 5
    • it was a responsibility to light the wood stove and keep the fire going in the winter.
    • mowed lawns unsupervised since a young age. 8ish maybe?
    • used weed whackers about the same time
    • had a dirt bike at 13ish. Allowed to go anywhere unsupervised
    • totally cool to swim unsupervised or even alone once I learned how to swim
    • totally cool to eat things that had fallen on the ground - the 5 second rule definitely applied
    • it was ok to drink at home a little bit with friends as a teenager. Like a sleepover or out in the woods. Better than drinking and driving. Getting shitfaced wasn’t cool, but drinking some of dad’s beer / liquor was - as long as we didn’t drive. Party at a friends house? Gonna be booze? Ok if parents are around and nobody drives.
    • when tromping around the neighborhood-I didn’t have to tell my parents where I was. They didn’t care. There were no cell phones either. If our parents wanted us they’d yell. If that didn’t work, they’d call neighbors and once they found out where we were last seen - that neighbor would yell.
    • people had chicken pox parties (I never went to one but they happened - I think I got it from my sister)
    • monkey bars - big ass ones at least 15 feet high. Hard packed dirt underneath. Totally could bust your head open or break your back if you fell off one. Wicked dangerous. Was actually scary to climb to the top but you bet your ass we all did it, otherwise you were a pussy and got picked on forever.
    • huge Fn seesaws - like would go up in the air maybe 6 or seven feet
    • those spin-y things in the playground-dunno what they were called. You know all the kids piled on, others grabbed the bars and spun the shit out of it. We all got dizzy and tried not to whack our heads falling off.

    I dunno, that’s all just off the top of my head.


  • I read what sounded like an intelligent follow-up on this subject. But I’m not smart enough to verify for myself, so I still refrain from using ventoy - even though I’d love to start using it again.

    It was basically “wacky code from all over the place, poor coding practices, can’t find anything bad, but methods used are sus af”

    Says one dude I read on the internet :/



  • I think local compute will kill these huge data centers for AI. It’s amazing what you can do with free tools like ollama or rag agents like n8n. Even on a business laptop with only 16GB of ram. If you’ve got a 4090 at home in your gaming pc and some big ram sticks - well, you’d be surprised at what some models can do (and how quickly they can respond).

    You all know how the internet works - in a short time someone’s going to put together a free tool that’s as easy as “click this button to install” and it’ll do 80% of what ChatGPT can do. ie probably enough for the average user - for free.

    So how are they going to recoup all these billions spent on data centers if peoples personal computers can mostly do the same thing? How do they monetize your information and sell you ads if it’s all done locally?Go download one and ask questions-sure it’s not perfect but it’s surprisingly good locally hosted.

    I think the people spending these billions are starting to realize that…. Meanwhile I think this keeps video card prices high unfortunately…