I have the same Problem. If I have written a Post wher I could not see the comments. I was only able to answer them because I answered through the notification.

Thanks for the hint. Long ago I also used syncthing. At that time it not fit my needs. But in this case it may is a possibility.

Any best practises for excluding files in Home for syncing like .cache ?

As far syncthing does not come with a vfs.

All family member I support and provide with services use a Laptop. They are connected over wireguard. Solutions that depends on Network connections will not work.

I read 136 🤣