• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    18 hours ago

    Thats a good point, but in my defense, I’d argue thst an alcoholic just is a manipulative narcissist, a flavor of them, just with worse memory and coordination.

    • Smoogs@lemmy.world
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      38 minutes ago

      the action of being an addict is very selfish. And I have no doubt some alcoholics or other types of addicts are narcissistic. Often alcoholics are self medicating for another issue such as depression which might fit a different mental reason.

      For our sake and purpose here : Results are the same. Still impacts the family just as much with a selfish action.

      Just if we were to peel off from this and look at what drives them and how they might try to fix themselves might be a different approach cuz what they are masking can be various illnesses.