• dogdeanafternoon@lemmy.ca
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    3 days ago

    I’m just replying to the text you quoted. If there is a lot worse context, why not quote that?

    If people randomly start touching me, fists won’t be far behind. If that’s not actually what happened, it seems strange for that to be the part you quote.

    • phutatorius@lemmy.zip
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      2 days ago

      Leg-touching is too low a threshold, and can happen inadvertently in a crowded venue. Grabbing your bits, that would be different.

      My young adult daughter was groped in a crowded pub once and gave the guy a beatdown. Footswept him and kept knocking him down when he tried to get up, until the bouncers threw him out. There were witnesses, and he had escalated after she’d already told him to back off. There was no ambiguity about what he was up to. There were no charges. And this was in the UK, where throwing hands can get you an ABH or GBH charge if you carry matters even a little bit too far.

      But that’s not what happened with LaBeouf. He was the aggressor, his defense was bullshit, and he took a plea.

      So, do you spend a lot of time running scenarios through your mind about how violently you’re going to respond if a gay guy touches you?

    • partial_accumen@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      I’m just replying to the text you quoted.

      Seriously?!

      If there is a lot worse context, why not quote that?

      You’re replying to a post about an article. You’ve got the whole context if you bother to click on it.

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          3 days ago

          The expected etiquette upon posting in a forum thread dedicated to an article is that each poster has at the very least read the article. Your post could have been the elaboration of oc’s post that stated the far worse offense to the shock of casual readers as opposed to detracting from the actual discussion.

          To answer your question in earnest, yes, because a double standard enforced as a means of countering an existing inequality that society refuses to correct is a better, albeit not best, solution than blanket condemnation. Another example would be that a gay male being touched in a bar by straight men would also be within his rights to respond with violence as statistically gay men are more likely to be victimized by straight men than the other way around. For supporting example, see article above.

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      3 days ago

      To clear up your misunderstanding, those were quotes by himself. He played it down and tried to frame himself as the victim.